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Addictions – there is a wound driving you
Loneliness, boredom, anxiety, trauma, meaninglessness, all make us vulnerable to addictions. They are not excuses; they are emotional signals that our emotional needs are not being met. Addictions served a purpose… the purpose of having some relief from pain. Something was missing and we thought this would be the answer. There is a wound driving your addiction Trauma is behind most addictions. Childhood adverse experiences change our bodies and brain, and we look for “self-medication” like alcohol or drugs or gambling, or work, or porn, or food, or shopping … anything that promises to smooth the emotional pain derived from the torments we have been through. It is an escapee…
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10 Tips For a Successful Relationship
What’s the key to a successful relationship? Some say that truly is the “million-dollar” question. Sometimes it’s just the simple things that we easily forget or think are unimportant that hold the key to a healthy and happy relationship. Read through the helpful tips below on how to make your relationship go the distance. If you do this you will see your relationships improve. You need quality time together for a successful relationship I know… life gets in the way. It is the school run, work, housekeeping and … Netflix, Social Media, gamming, etc. Without quality time together, your relationship will not survive. Aim to devote at least half an…
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Overreactive? – Is it a disorder or an adaptation?
Over reactiveness is not a disorder, it is an adaptation
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Improve your communication skills – Episode 1
The meaning of communication is the response you get
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7 Presuppositions for life – Ideas worth living for
Please reflect upon this ideas. They are some of the presuppositions of NLP. It will help you navigate the world in a more realistic and gentle way.
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Anger – the courage to transform it
We all feel angry at times – it's part of being human. It isn't a 'bad' emotion; in fact, it is a useful, energizing emotion in its place. It drives us into action against threats, it allows us to define our boundaries, it can help us to realize when something is not working for us and encourage change or motivate us to achieve our goals. Can even be a catalyst for social change. However, anger becomes a serious problem when you express your anger through destructive behaviour. This means you react angrily when something does not go as you wish and your well-being and the well-being of people around you…
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Boundaries – Your domain
Boundaries - In what regards my own space and my boundaries, what are the things that I have a right to? And a responsibility to? Because, if I have a right to it, I also have a responsibility for it. These are interesting questions, that will help me to define and defend my domain. So, let's see...
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Understand your “emotional brain”
Understanding your emotional brain is understanding yourself. Knowledge is power.
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About self-harm – So confusing and upsetting for parents
Self-harm - so upsetting. Learn to deal with it.
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ENS – Emotional Needs Scale
Are your Innate Emotional Needs being met? Answer this questionnaire and find out









