Why do so many women lose interest in sex after having their first child? What if loss of sexual desire after children is not a dysfunction? What if it is the result of two instincts pulling in opposite directions? For years I have listened to couples struggling with the same painful issue. The man says: “We used to have sex regularly. Now she avoids it. I feel lonely, unwanted and unloved.” The woman says: “I love him, but the moment he mentions sex I feel repulsion. I don’t know why. I wish I felt differently.” Both are suffering. The man often concludes that his partner no longer loves him. The…

We call it procrastination, to the fact that all of us can spend half an hour scrolling on our phone without hesitation, yet the moment we think about doing something important—sending that email, filling out that form, ironing, cleaning — we suddenly feel heavy, tired, or mysteriously “busy”! Do you wonder why the things you need to do feel like uphill work, while the things you want to do feel effortless? If so, you’re not alone. In fact, you’re human. Let’s talk about what’s really happening inside you when you avoid necessary tasks and gravitate toward pleasant ones—and how you can shift that pattern. Procrastination Isn’t Laziness. It’s Protective. Do…

In a world filled with noise, conflict, and misunderstanding, the way we communicate matters more than ever. Whether in our personal relationships, workplaces, or communities, the words we choose—and the intent behind them—can either build bridges or create barriers. Nonviolent Communication (NVC) is a transformative approach to dialogue that fosters empathy, clarity, and connection. Developed by psychologist Marshall Rosenberg in the 1960s, NVC is more than a communication technique—it’s a mindset shift. It invites us to speak from the heart, listen deeply, and engage with others in ways that honor both our needs and theirs. This workshop is designed for anyone seeking to improve their relationships, resolve conflicts peacefully, and…

Let’s talk about antidepressants. Not in a dry, clinical way—but in the way real people experience them. Because behind every prescription is someone sitting quietly thinking: “Will this actually help me… or am I just hoping it will?” I hear this question a lot in my work. And the honest answer is: 👉 Antidepressants can help—but they are not the whole story. 💊 What the Science Says (and What People Feel) Research does show that antidepressants can be effective. A large meta‑analysis of over 500 clinical trials and more than 100,000 patients found that antidepressants perform better than placebo in treating depression, particularly in more severe cases. [thelancet.com] That’s important.…

In recent years, psychedelic‑assisted therapy has moved from the margins of scientific research into mainstream conversation. People living with trauma, anxiety, or long‑standing emotional pain are increasingly curious about whether these substances could help them heal. At the same time, many feel overwhelmed by the hype, unsure about the risks, and uncertain about how psychedelics compare to gentler, established approaches such as the Rewind Technique. To understand the role psychedelics might play in trauma recovery today, it helps to look both backward — to the Indigenous traditions of Central America — and forward, to the emerging scientific evidence. This article offers a grounded, culturally respectful, and trauma‑informed exploration of psychedelics,…

“The story: The Silence Between Them” Margaret sat by the window, her hands wrapped around a lukewarm cup of tea. The autumn leaves outside danced in the wind, but her heart felt still and heavy. It had been nearly two years since she’d heard from her daughter, Claire. This estrangement led to profund depression and guilt. Claire had always been spirited—bright, ambitious, and outspoken. Margaret and her late husband had done everything to support her: private school, university abroad, help with her first flat, and later, childcare when Claire had her own children. They’d never said no, even when it meant dipping into their retirement savings. But things changed after…

Alcohol consumption is one of the most socially accepted habits in modern society, yet it’s also one of the most misunderstood. For many, drinking starts as a casual indulgence and gradually becomes a routine—one that’s hard to break. But what if the urge to drink isn’t truly an addiction, but a subconscious habit? And what if you could reprogram that habit using the power of your mind? The Emotional Roots of Drinking Alcohol is often used as an emotional anaesthetic. People drink not just for pleasure, but to numb pain, escape stress, or cope with unresolved trauma. In therapy, it’s common to find that excessive drinking is linked to emotional…